It's Over ! Give it All Back!!

Ha! This is one has me cracking up all the time because both men and women react the same way when a recent Ex asks for everything they ever gave you back! "How dare he say that with all the twerking I did in the bedroom?!!" Lool yes my dear! he dares says so!

Relax-xx........

Now I'm going to be on the fence with this because I really think it depends on the history of the relationship and circumstances of the break up! There are things you should give back for example an engagement ring, that's too much history to keep a hold of and that would only hold you back ! look at it as a gesture of   an amicable break up! If the "white picked fence home, with two perfect kids and a dog" dream came crumbling down and  he cheated on you with your sister or best friend  pawn that diamond and book yourself a spa weekend or better yet buy you some designer shoes! 

Or ... and its's a long ORRRRRRR

you can be the bigger person !! Give it all back ! Or be classy and do not ask for anything back! let "bye gones be bye gones". 

Like many people when you are in a situation that you perhaps thought was forever and it doesn't work out, its easy to hold on to anything and everything that stops you from facing reality that it's simply over. someone recently told me "Change is the only constant thing in life" and instead of fighting it embrace an end of a chapter because 80% of the time you look back and think i'm so much happier. 

Personally I’m a burner, I find it ever so soothing to burn things out of my life.  I just really feel when you keep some things of an ex relationship they linger like a big black cloud over your new one and as the humans we are, we start secretly comparing. "oooh my ex could get me a celine bag, this guy can kiss good but river island though?", Guys do it too "ooh my ex was really homely she got me these nice beddings, this girl looks good but can’t even make a bed!" you completely miss the point of why you are not with your ex and you trim the new guy or girl's fare shot at winning your heart and you remain stuck on stupid!!

So there you have it, whether you decide to pawn, burn or bin it ... it's over Give it All Back!!

Agree or Not, Leave a Comment Below of what you do with ex relationship goodies Cuz’s that’s how Scarlet C's it

How He Makes me Feel☺️

Wonder if he knows that he got me at "hello"! All I was praying for was "please don't say anything stupid to ruin this perfect image ";  A perfect image of him being humble , charismatic , gentle, confident not cocky, the gentleman version of swagger "sauve" , flirty with a little modesty turned up where appropriate! Lool* .... He kept ticking the many boxes I had lined up in my head and just like that my face lit up. 

So we chat for a while and immediately I recognise his work ethic, his ambition, his desire to be the best! (What I Love about him the most) . His desire to be a provider not only for his mum and family but his future unknown family ,lets me know I can depend on him to keep his word and try his best every time he makes a promise.

Everyday I look forward to a conversation with him because it's like a haven of fantasy , a time and place where everything in the world stands still and it's just me and him. The baritone of his voice makes me  giggle and ignites a fire inside me that makes me want to lock my lips with his only stopping to take in some air.

We call our conversations "a no judgement zone" , a place to express how we really feel without any fear of repacautions or condemnation! This has allowed our friendship to grow with both of us feeling safer everyday to reveal our inner most stories and sexual fantasies! 

Lately I suffer from insomnia , daydreaming about the things we could be , I get the feeling that it would be so calm , so easy and free because he might be different but his so much like me! 

Other guys have faded into non-existence because there is no doubt in my mind his the only man I want!

I wasn't ready for this , I wasn't ready for this free fall ! This loss of control! In one breathless moment He made me feel like the most beautiful girl in the world that's crazy about him 🙈💋